Intensive Couples Therapy

Do you want to get the most of your time to reset your relationship?

  • Are you ready to re-prioritize and jump-start your relationship?

  • Do you have busy schedules that make it very challenging to commit to weekly couples therapy sessions?

  • Are you longing to getaway for a weekend to focus on your marriage without the daily distractions?

  • Do you usually benefit more from immersive experiences rather than smaller doses of learning?

  • Are you at an impasse and don’t want to spend months getting to some clarity?

WEEKLY COUPLES COUNSELING ISN’T FOR EVERYONE

There are circumstances in a marriage/committed relationship that you need more than weekly check-ins. There’s so much to unpack or so little time in your busy lives to make time for a once a week one hour appointment. You believe that it might be many couples therapy sessions before you start benefiting from weekly appointments — and that makes you even more anxious to start couples counseling….

Many of my clients are accomplished individuals with very busy lives. While they had been aware that something must change in their marriage, the additional pressure of attending weekly couples counseling appointments had deterred them from getting the help they needed. Sometimes there was also fear that at the end of a one-hour appointment there would still be too much hurt to take home and attempt to manage on their own over the course of an entire week or two. For others, there’s just so much damage that’s been caused that dedicating compressed hours or a weekend is really the only way to create any change.

THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT YOUR APPREHENSIONS ABOUT WEEKLY COUPLES COUNSELING DO NOT HAVE TO HOLD YOU BACK FROM FINDING HEALING AND CONNECTION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. INTENSIVE COUPLES THERAPY/RETREAT IS WHAT YOU NEED TO BE ON YOUR WAY TO A BETTER FUTURE TOGETHER.

Intensive couples therapy is a springboard to launch you in a positive direction

 

INTENSIVE COUPLES THERAPY IS IMMERSIVE:

How would you like to accomplish months-worth of couples counseling in just one weekend to rejuvenate your relationship? Whether it’s your busy schedules or that you want to dedicate your time to solely focusing on your marriage, an intensive couples retreat is a perfect way to immerse yourselves in what needs to be worked on in order to move forward with clarity and connection. During the allocated time, my focus in only on your relationship — I am not coming off of another session or heading into another appointment. I am deeply engaged and devoted to helping you get the most out of the intensive couples therapy time.

When you commit to focusing on your marriage without life’s many distractions, you are not only sending a message to your partner that says “you and our marriage are very important to me!”, you’re also setting yourselves up for success in a way that can sometimes be harder to accomplish with weekly one-hour sessions. In order to gain momentum, most couples require at least once a week appointments; with intensive couples counseling you’re getting all of that momentum within the first few hours. While at the end of the weekend most couples won’t necessarily be “done” working on their relationship, they will have built a stronger foundation that they can continue to improve on with maintenance appointments.

Nourish your relationship with focused attention & care

  • Two-day Intensive

    What is included in the 2 day couples intensive?

    A free 45 minute consultation.

    A thorough assessment and review of your strengths and areas of focus for the weekend intensive prior to starting the intensive (4+hr of prep work)

    Two full days of private dedicated time to work on your marriage/relationship without any distractions.

    Individually tailored binders (one for each partner) with the extensive tools and learnings that you can refer back to during, as well as after the intensive.

    Follow up summary of the weekend and next steps.

    A resource list to continue building on what you learned.

    Opportunity to schedule a 90min follow up session 3-6 weeks after the intensive.

    Who benefits most from a two-day intensive?

    The two-day intensive is best for couples who have the capacity and desire to learn meaningful tools to create healthy communication. You will gain 4-6 months worth of sessions that will set you up with an invaluable foundation.

    A two-day couples intensive provides you with focused and dedicated time to gain a deeper understanding of yourselves and each other. It gives you ample time to begin practicing and working through some of the challenging topics are sources of conflict.

    The two-day intensive is for couples that love a truly immersive experience and have jointly decided that they want to work as a team to have a more fulfilling relationship.

    Find out more about “high impact” couples intensies featured in this WSJ article featuring my mentor Dr. Ellyn Bader.

  • One-day “Jump Start”

    What is included in the one-day couples intensive?

    A free 30 minute consultation.

    A thorough assessment and review of your strengths and areas of focus for the one-day intensive prior to starting the intensive (2+hr of prep work).

    One full day of private dedicated time to work on your marriage/relationship without any distractions.

    Relevant handouts that you can refer back to afterwards.

    What kind of couples is the one-day “jump start” intensive best for?

    The one-day “jump start” is perfect for couples who want to gain some insight about how they are stuck in their negative patterns, set a vision for the relationship they want to create together and guidance around what each partner will need to work on to create a stronger relationship.

    The one-day intensive can be an incredibly productive way to maximize the assessment period to jump start the couples therapy process . In just one day you cover 5-6 weeks worth of sessions so that you dive into couples therapy with clarity, purpose and momentum.

    The one-day intensive is also ideal for couples who want to engage in Discernment Counseling process without wasting time to gain clarity and confidence about the future of their relationship

You may have some lingering questions…

 

Who benefits from intensive couples therapy?

  • Couples who want to jump-start the couple therapy process and build momentum quickly.

  • Couples with demanding jobs and life obligations who are unable to commit to weekly sessions.

  • Couples who are at a pivotal time in their relationship and ready to address specific issues that keep them stuck in a relationship rut.

  • Couples who want to enhance their relationship by taking some time away to reconnect and renew.

  • Couples who frequently travel or live apart for a significant portion of their week.

  • Couples who need privacy and a discrete setting to focus on their relationship.

What are the benefits of intensive couples counseling?

  • It’s an immersive experience that gives you ample opportunities to learn and grow.

  • A couples intensive provides a condensed and accelerated way to create the kind of relationship you aspire to be in.

  • You get focused attention from me and from each other to build some meaningful momentum.

  • It’s free of distractions: you have one or two full days to devote to your relationship and each other.

  • You’re engaged in a tailored and structured process that provides you with tangible tools to work through any issues that cause stress to the relationship.

  • Read more about it in this WSJ article featuring my mentor Dr. Ellyn Bader.

Who is not a good fit for a couples intensive?

  • If only one partner really wants to do the intensive while the other is ambivalent.

  • If there’s untreated substance use, depression, ADHD, or other unaddressed mental health issues.

  • If there’s any physical or emotional abuse.

  • If one partner is already done with the marriage/relationship and is actively ending things.

  • If there’s an on-going affair or deceit in the relationship.

We’re not quite ready for a whole day or weekend. Do you offer shorter intensives?

Yes, I offer a “mini” intensive (4 hours). These shorter intensives will help build positive momentum for your relationship. These types of sessions are best for couples who are not yet ready to commit to a full day or weekend intensive, who want to jump-start the couples counseling process, or who are looking for a tune-up. It is also my preferred approach for couples who want to initiate working through infidelity.

There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation. You get to share with me a little bit about what you’re looking to work on and I can answer any questions you might have about my practice.

**Please note that I am private pay / out of network provider only**